How to celebrate Memorial Day at work: 16 respectful ideas
Quiet, sincere ways to observe Memorial Day as a workplace, with notes and out of office replies to copy. No party games.

The best way to celebrate Memorial Day at work is to treat it as what it is: a day to remember the service members who died for the country. Memorial Day 2027 is Monday, May 31, 2027, and in 2028 it falls on Monday, May 29, 2028. Below is what the day means, how it differs from Veterans Day, 16 respectful ideas for the Friday before and the day itself, the mistakes to avoid, and 11 messages ready to copy.
What Memorial Day is, and how it differs from Veterans Day
A few facts to get right before you plan anything.
- Who it honors. The men and women who died while serving in the US armed forces. It is a day of remembrance and, for many families, of mourning.
- Not Veterans Day. Veterans Day, on November 11, honors everyone who served. Armed Forces Day, the third Saturday in May, honors those serving now.
- Where it began. After the Civil War it was called Decoration Day. In 1868 General John A. Logan called for decorating the graves of the Civil War dead on May 30.
- Why it's a Monday. The Uniform Monday Holiday Act of 1968 moved it to the last Monday in May, starting in 1971, which made the long weekend.
- The 3 p.m. pause. The National Moment of Remembrance Act, signed in December 2000, asks Americans to pause for one minute at 3 p.m. local time.
- The flag until noon. The US Flag Code says to fly the flag at half-staff until noon on Memorial Day, then raise it to the top of the staff.
- The red poppy. Poppies have stood for the fallen since World War I, after John McCrae's 1915 poem In Flanders Fields.
Planning for November too? See how Veterans Day differs and how to thank living veterans at work.
Memorial Day dates for the next five years
- 2027Monday, May 31Armed Forces Day: Saturday, May 15
- 2028Monday, May 29Armed Forces Day: Saturday, May 20
- 2029Monday, May 28Armed Forces Day: Saturday, May 19
- 2030Monday, May 27Armed Forces Day: Saturday, May 18
- 2031Monday, May 26Armed Forces Day: Saturday, May 17
16 respectful ways to observe Memorial Day at work
Every one of these is optional for employees. Pick a few that fit your team.
Before the long weekend
Most offices close on Monday, so the workplace part of Memorial Day usually happens on the Friday before.
1. Explain the day in the Friday note. Two or three sentences on who Memorial Day honors and when the 3 p.m. pause is. There are three notes to copy below.
2. Offer a 3 p.m. calendar reminder. Share an optional one-minute hold for 3 p.m. local time on Monday that people can add to their own calendars.
3. Set out a bowl of red poppies. Paper or fabric poppies at reception, with a small card explaining why the poppy stands for the fallen.
4. Open a remembrance board. Invite anyone who wants to add the name of a relative or friend who died in service to a board or shared page.
5. Check in quietly with veteran employees. The weekend can be heavy for people who lost friends in service. A short private note from a manager is enough; don't ask for stories.
6. Give time to visit a grave. Let people leave early on Friday or take Tuesday off to visit a cemetery or be with family.

If your team works on Memorial Day
Hospitals, stores, plants and support desks stay open. A few small choices keep the day respectful on shift.
7. Pause together at 3 p.m. Announce the National Moment of Remembrance over the PA or in the shift chat and stop for one minute.
8. Fly the flag at half-staff until noon. If your building has a flagpole, lower the flag in the morning and raise it to the top at noon.
9. Pay people who work the holiday. Offer holiday pay or a floating day off to anyone scheduled on Memorial Day.
10. Keep the calendar quiet. Move launches, all-hands meetings and team celebrations off the day itself.
Ways to give back as a team
Work through organizations that already serve the families of the fallen, and let each person choose whether to join.
11. Write tributes on the Veterans Legacy Memorial. The VA's online memorial has pages for veterans buried in VA national cemeteries. Each person can write a tribute to one from your area.
12. Help at a cemetery. Ask a nearby VA national cemetery or a local veterans post whether they need hands to place or collect flags at graves.
13. Support Gold Star families through TAPS. TAPS gives free grief support to anyone grieving a military loved one. Match employee gifts to it during May.
14. Walk with Carry The Load. Its Memorial May walks and events run across the country each May to honor fallen military and first responders. Join one as a team.
15. Share the National Memorial Day Concert. PBS airs it live from the US Capitol's West Lawn on the Sunday evening of Memorial Day weekend. Put the time in the Friday note.
16. Post your town's ceremony schedule. Many towns hold a parade or a service at a memorial. List the local times for anyone who wants to go.
Want a give-back activity your team can do any time of year? Our virtual volunteer opportunities list ways to help from home or the office.
What not to do on Memorial Day
Good intentions can still land wrong on a day of mourning.
- Skip "Happy Memorial Day" in company messages. Try "Today we remember those who died in service" instead. The day is a loss for many families.
- Keep sales and promos away from it. A Memorial Day discount in an employee email or a company post about your products reads as using the fallen.
- Don't brand the cookout as the observance. A team barbecue the week before is fine. Just don't call it a Memorial Day celebration.
- Save "thank you for your service" for Veterans Day. Memorial Day remembers people who died. Veterans are often the first to point out the difference.
- Don't ask veterans to speak. Nobody should be asked to share a loss at work. If someone offers, let them lead.
- Keep the flag off disposable things. The Flag Code advises against printing the flag on paper napkins, boxes or anything made to be thrown away.
- Make nothing mandatory. The 3 p.m. pause, the board and the volunteering all work only when people choose them.
- Check a charity before you give. Look it up on Charity Navigator, and give to groups that serve families of the fallen directly.
Memorial Day messages to copy
Plain and short. Replace anything in brackets.
A note to the team before the weekend
8 Memorial Day out of office messages
The first four are for offices that close, the last four for when you're out.
For the rest of the year's holidays, see our holiday out of office messages.
